Also as a side note I feel like the word *drama* gets used in a really gendered way, specifically as dismissive of women’s voices, feelings, experiences.

Uh, maybe in womens spaces it gets used in a gendered way...

Get a group of guys and drama plays out and is called out. As drama. Get a mixed group together and you can see how the ones who vie for attention the most and who breaks first because they aren’t getting it and get “drama” lobbed at them. Hint: it’s not always women.

What a dumb thing to say. It’s like Jezzies don’t even know any men and constantly have to police other wome...ohh.